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urban TEH KID said:
[1] and adam i do know that i’ve been wrong plenty of times. but i also know that more times than not i was accused of doing wrongs i didn’t do. i know i have a big mouth and that i run it more than needed. but thats just my way of handling things.
[2] you ask me to hand you your water bottle once or twice? sure. but im not going to fetch your bottle from across a building or field twice a day everyday. i refuse to be someones “*edited*” or their personal lapdog. as the saying goes, you scratch my back ill scratch yours. but when someone wants me to give them a 30 minute massage and if i dont then they’ll curse me off? well i’ll be damned if they truly think im not going to make them eat dirt.
[3] admins consider themselves higher on the “food chain”. they think that they can gag you or kick you or ban you and you won’t say anything because of fear. well i don’t let them. i rebel. thats who i am. be it 5 minutes ago, 5 days ago, or 5 months ago. if i wasn’t given the right to defend myself i’ll do it whenever i get a chance.
mmkay, let me comment once, it is all you’ll hear from me unless you give me reason to personally throw down with you… (forgive the hostility, it comes out in certain conditions)
First off, there’s a TON of communities around. and at that a TON of GAMING communities. Almost every community you will come across has some standard of behavior, and some common ideology. Any such community will defend its standard of behavior and common ideology if need be from people that sharply contrast with it. In the past you showed such strong behavior as to strongly clash with ours [1], and so we simply showed you the door. You keep coming back, maybe because you like us, maybe not. But if you want to join up to our community, you’re going to have to conform at least some to our standards of behavior and our ideology. If you don’t want to [2], go find another club. We won’t ask you to tend to anyone, we won’t ask you to be the slave of anyone. If you feel like we are asking this of you, then go ahead and step out now and find another community. I only speak to my admins, because that is the limit of my scope of governance, but I do have good faith in the other admins you will encounter: they will not take admin actions on anyone just because they feel like it or just because they can [3]. They are to only do so when someone is making the community less welcoming, and/or whenever someone is openly breaking rules. If they’re still acting against anyone, then that person can be certain that they have themselves been wrong. It appears you are familiar with that side of things, but perhaps not aware of it in that sense.
Now, second… you certainly are no diplomat. Generally with any degree of pardon, the one who was pardoned should show some sort of gratitude. Or at least some sort of a motivation to make changes in what it was that earned them the punishment in the first place… Here’s a lesson that will go far with you in life: learn the value of the word “thanks” and try to incorporate that into your vocabulary. I wouldn’t be all over your case right now if you came back modestly, but you seem to be back and attempting a coup. Show us that you aren’t coming back into our community all gung-ho about continuing all that you’ve done in the past, and I’ll respect that.
Lemme repeat: Show us that you aren’t coming back into our community all gung-ho about continuing all that you’ve done in the past, and I’ll respect that.
With this I conclude my conversations with you. Enjoy your stay.